OK, I can’t believe it’s almost been a year since I wrote about finding the perfect gray paint for our family room!  I’m so sorry to have kept you waiting so long to reveal our final decision, but I hit some bumps along the road in my search.  Oh well, that’s all in the past now, because the search is over…the new paint is on the wall…and it looks FABULOUS!

The Family Room – Final Reveal

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My Perfect Gray Paint Winner

So, what did I end up choosing?????  Well, it wasn’t what I expected, but the perfect gray paint for us ended up being…

Benjamin Moore’s Revere Pewter

“But, wait,” you say, “you tried that one at the very beginning, and didn’t think it was the one!” I know, I know. I can hardly believe it myself.  You can read the entire back story in my two previous Perfect Gray Paint posts (Part I and Part II).

After I wrote Part II, I flipped back and forth for a while between Benjamin Moore’s Nimbus, Revere Pewter, and Silver Chain. But, then I found Mindful Gray from Sherwin Williams, and it seemed like it was “in between” the colors I was considering, and might work perfectly.

We ended up painting Mindful Gray on the walls in the dining room, and it looked fabulous in there. So, I started putting some of my leftover Mindful Gray paint on the walls in the family room, and it looked terrible…the walls looked almost lavender, and clashed horribly with the maroon cabinets and beige tile in our kitchen (which came with the house, by the way).  I had fallen victim to competing paint undertones!!!

A quick lesson in undertones…

Every neutral color on the paint wheel has an identifiable undertone. Grays tend to have undertones that are blue or green, and sometimes even taupe or lavender. Once you know the color’s undertones, itโ€™s important to compare the color with the fixed elements in the room (like the maroon cabinets and beige tile in our kitchen, or your flooring, or other furnishings in the room), to ensure that you don’t pick a neutral color that will “clash” with the other elements in the room. A beige with yellow undertones, for example, will not look good when painted next to a neutral that has blue undertones.

So, you have to compare the undertones against each other before deciding on your wall color.  And that’s where I went wrong. If you don’t want to repeat my mistake, Maria Killem has a great eBook on paint undertones and how to recognize them.  I recently read it, and found it helpful.

So, to make a long story short, Revere Pewter has warm undertones rather than cool/neutral undertones (like Mindful Gray or Silver Chain), but it still looks gray.  So, if you have lots of warm elements in your room, try Revere Pewter. If the fixed items in your room are cooler colors, then you may want to go with a gray that has slight blue undertones, like Stonington Gray or Silver Chain.

Well, I hope you all learned something from my challenges and adventures in choosing the perfect gray paint. I know I sure learned a lot along the way. I can see now why Revere Pewter is a go-to gray for so many designers, as it seems to go beautifully with almost any colors in a room. It might very well be “the perfect gray” paint!


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13 Comments

  1. Hi, do you think Revere Pewter on the walls would compliment Chelsea Gray cabinets in a bathroom, or should I go for more of a beige.undertone?

  2. Hi, we just moved into a lovely airy 1950s PNW house that had a previous love for brighter versions of pastels (think every room is baby pink, lavender, or baby blue) we are having a heck of a time finding a good clean gray that looks gray over our blue walls (despite priming…a lot). Stoning ton gray worked wonderfully in “The Pink Room” but this darned blue room is making me blue in the face! Any suggestions?. We just finished it in Silver Lake…but I’m hating it. Thanks!!!

  3. Do you have a hallway or foyer open to family room? Just wondering what color would you used to complement revere pewter? Was nimbus much grayer than rp? I was considering it in my dining room just not sure if it is warm enough go with my darker wood furniture? Thank you.

    1. Revere Pewter is a great color that tends to go with everything! With warm honey oak floors, try to avoid paint colors that are too warm, like strong beiges or creamy whites – they will just look more yellow/orange. Lighting in a room is a big factor, as well.

  4. This seems so complicated! ๐Ÿ™‚ I have revere pewter on my exterior and love it. But I don’t want the same color inside. And I want something more “gray” than greige. Our kitchen will be white cabinets, slate grey counters and stainless appliances – the paint will go in kitchen, living space, hallway, guest room, etc. because we have an open plan and want to carry it throughout. I want a warm, comforting, neutral grey but not dark. Our house in in FL and on the water. I’m wondering if/how I can find the right color that goes with all rooms/lighting. All the ones you mentioned are worth considering. It just gets overwhelming for me. Thanks! MH

    1. I have Silver Lining in my bedroom and love it! It does have a slight purple undertone but if you donโ€™t mind that, then this color might be a good match for you!

    2. The one wall looks green toned and the other wall is more greige toned. Does look like 2 totally different colors

  5. Looking for a kitchen and cabinets family room entry way grey or neutral all house color trim & walls same color any recs? Sort of a dark spsce as neighbors on left close & nosy so we use bamboo shades in 1 room

    1. SW Repose Gray is a nice, light gray (with a touch of warmth) that is great for walls and cabinets. If you want a color that works great for both trim and walls, I’d recommend BM White Dove.

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